“The process of recording that whole record was really difficult. We thought we were really well-rehearsed and we would just bust it all out live, then when we got into the studio with Ted Niceley, he was the first person who had ever really put a microscope on our performances and our tones and the way that we played. That was really inspiring – it was like going to school. I think this was the only song we couldn’t put to a click track, because it was a little too slippery and kind of groovy, so it took some work to get a take that we were happy with.
“Typically with Jawbox, the lyrics would come way after the music, but once we had that first part together, I remember thinking that it was – and forgive me for saying this – a much sexier sound than we had ever had before. I thought that that was something that should be reflected in the lyrics, because I wanted it to be sort of sexual. So there are aspects of that both in the lyrics and the music, but unfortunately the lyric ended up coming out of personal experience of a highly dysfunctional relationship I was in.
“By that point in my life I was forever trying to couch my personal struggles in these kind of grand, analytical terms, and the characters in the song are people that allow themselves to be exploited and objectified. I’m sort of midway through decrying that, and being upset about it when I also realise that I’m just as guilty of it, and I’m as guilty of objectifying this person as they are of allowing themselves to be objectified. At the time, I thought that was a pretty intellectual way of dealing with an unfortunate situation, and now 25 or so years later, I have a bit of a more informed perspective about that. So I certainly don’t think I’d write those lyrics the same way today. But I was pretty happy with ‘One hand will wash the other’ as a chorus line. Because there’s a lot of truth in it. It’s also a pain in the ass to sing because the melody’s so broad. I was not up to the task of singing that song, but I did the best I could do as a singer at the time.
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“I don’t really know why it has special resonance for people. When we were on Atlantic Records, we were doing our best to not comply with the strictures of what we thought of as the major label template. So we weren’t trying to write ‘the single’ from the record – we were just trying to write the good songs that came out when we went down to the basement to hash things out. But my theory as to why this song works is because there’s very little second guessing going on. It just kind of came out and suddenly, before you know it, the song is written, and I think maybe that’s why it worked.
“But we did the whole album, and then there was some discussion about what the single would be, and we kind of let our A&R pick the single. And I sort of think that part of the reason people know this song the best is because that song was put in front of the most people. It’s that simple. But if it sticks in people’s heads or gets under their skin, I think it’s because it wasn’t a song that got worked to death. It was a song where some sort of truth and directness managed to slip through all the filers and just hit a little bit harder.”
Jawbox headline the Electric Ballroom in London on June 11.