Jack, were you inspired by Alex doing Simple Creatures?
Jack: “It wasn’t motivated like that, but the thing about it that is kind of cool is the side-projects are so different, not only musically, but I don’t think Simple Creatures’ motivation was break-up songs. I think they wanted to explore different genres of music and whatnot, and for Alex it was working with one of his idols. So the projects are very different, which is cool because it would be weird if we had side-projects that were the same thing. It’s a cool, unique thing that we were able to do this during our time off and have two separated, very different outlets to do it.”
Kevin: “When Jack and I got together to write songs we just wrote to write – it just happened. For me, at least, it’s been very unexpected.”
Would you tour with Simple Creatures?
Jack: “That would be sick! Alex has been super-supportive of our stuff and vice versa, so that’d be really cool and really special. And I’d never turn down an opportunity to tour with Mark Hoppus (laughs).”
In terms of your personal journey with WHY, you went through a bad break-up and said you didn’t deal with it in the right way. How did you deal with it?
Jack: “Instead of going to therapy, getting my head right, working out, doing all the positive things and thinking about the future, I was staying in the past and mulling everything over and drinking too much. It got to the point where I was like, ‘I don’t feel like I’m getting better, I feel like I’ve been running in circles for a while.’ So I started seeing a therapist and that turned everything around. She was like, ‘You need to find some healthy outlets – why don’t you write songs?’ It was in therapy that I kind of got a lot of lyrical content, ’cause I was putting all my things out there to her, and once I put it out to her, it gave me more ammunition for things to write about.”
Were you going to therapy and coming out with lyric ideas?
Jack: “Absolutely! Wish We Never Met came from a therapy session. I was fed up, I’d been going to therapy twice a week, spending all this money, all this time, and I was over being miserable. I said, ‘I wish we never met,’ to my therapist, and the next day I was in the studio with Kev and he was like, ‘What shall we write about?’ And I was like, ‘Well, I was in therapy and said I wish I never met my ex…’ and he was like, ‘Well that’s a song right there. Let’s write that!’”
That particular therapy session was worth the money, then…
Jack: “Yeah (laughs). That was worth the hundred bucks!”
Kevin, you’ve done therapy too…
Kevin: “Honestly, it was one of the best decisions I’d ever made. I think there’s this stigma that you’re weak if you [go to therapy], and the part of this band I think is so cool is that Jack and I wanna be very forward and very upfront that it’s not; it’s one of the most healthy things you can do.”
Jack: “I always compare it to going to the gym, because you never wanna go to the gym, then you leave and you’re like, ‘Oh my God, I feel amazing, I’m glad I did that!’ and it’s literally the same thing. You wake up and you’re like, ‘Shit, I have therapy today!’ ‘cause no-one wants to sit and talk about their feelings. At least, a lot of guys don’t.”
Kevin: “Hey! Speak for yourself, man, I love talking about my feelings (laughs).”
What have you both learned about yourselves from being in therapy?
Kevin: “For me, it was just finding the process of how to go through things. My therapist showed me how to just open up a journal, and don’t even think about it, just write whatever’s on your mind. That tool helped me a lot, so it’s just finding a process for yourself to just handle things when stuff gets rough.”
Jack: “That’s really good! For me, it brought up my insecurities and made me understand why I feel certain ways, because whether you feel angry or happy, you sometimes don’t understand why you feel that way. So I think just making sense of it all is what I got out of it.”